We heart fundraisers: September

The following people are putting the fun into fundraising and helping us raise some much needed funds for the shelter: heroes

Meet a volunteer: Rachel

photo 74As Rachel prepares to say goodbye to SFTS before returning to university, one guest’s story remains stuck in her mind:  “There was this Ugandan lady, let’s call her B;  she was in her sixties and had a heart condition. She finally chose to be repatriated – I guess she wanted to die in her home country – I helped raise funds to pay for her journey, and I went to the airport to see her off. I don’t know what happened in the end, but I’ve never forgotten her.

Londoner Rachel is full of energy, and her enthusiasm is infectious.  No wonder that after joining as a volunteer in early 2011, she soon took on more responsibility, becoming a shift leader and a key worker, which meant closer attention to individual cases.

Having completed a B.A. in theology, Rachel found that her first jobs – mainly in administration – involved hardly any direct personal contact. After arriving at the shelter in early 2011, however, she developed a passion for working with people.  “I learnt how to communicate, how to be patient, and I began to understand how people become homeless.

While she finds every case worrying, it’s the younger homeless that cause her particular concern:  “I know that I myself am just three steps away from where they are.” Her experience at the shelter helped Rachel find employment as a social worker, which in turn has led to her decision to leave London and study full-time for an M.A. in Social Work.

Rachel likes to think that, even though work at the shelter can feel like fire-fighting, it offers an honest approach with no false promises, and – above all – a safe environment:  “It’s a home.”   What will she miss?  “All the guests,” she says, “I got to know people well, and on their terms.

Guest stories: Nidal

NidalMy name is Nidal, I’m half Lebanese, half French. I was born and raised in the Congo. I graduated in journalism and for seven years I worked for two big French and Arabic newspapers. Three years ago I came to London to work for my Masters degree – the first two years were perfect, but then tragedy struck and my beloved Dad died of a sudden and unexpected heart attack.

My life went into tailspin. I started using drugs to ease the pain of my sorrow and before I knew it I was a slave, a prisoner trapped in my own body. With every smoke of my pipe, I was losing a friend, my family’s trust and support and finally my accommodation. I was homeless, chasing dealers in the street, thinking only about my next hit. I was surrounded by junkies and crack heads and I was petrified and ashamed to realize that I was becoming like them. After losing everything my freedom didn’t mean much; desperate for drugs I shoplifted and all I remember is the cold handcuffs on my wrists and the stinky smell of the previous criminals in the police cell.

I was in custody for five days but it felt like five years – I begged God to stop the agony of cold turkey.  When I was taken to court for sentencing I was staggered to find that the judge refused conditional bail unless I had an address where I could be electronically tagged. All my friends turned their backs on me, how could this be happening to me, I’m a journalist, a student, a nice middle class Lebanese girl and I was going to spend the next month in Holloway.

I thought my life was over, but then they told me a charity called Shelter from the Storm had agreed to give me a bed. After three weeks in the shelter I am overwhelmed by the love and support of the amazing volunteers. I don’t feel lonely or scared, I am surrounded by people who live their life to give to those less fortunate and for that I can’t thank them enough; thank them for giving me my life back.

Meet a volunteer: Megan

MeganI was introduced to SFTS by my friend Jane about two years ago and have been a regular member of mighty Monday night shift ever since.

Considering the shelter is essentially a big shed in the middle of an industrial estate in central London it is pretty miraculous how homely and relaxed it always feels. By about 6.30pm most of the guests have arrived and not long after we are all doing what many families around the country do every evening at home; sitting down to dinner, chatting, laughing and arguing about what to watch on the TV.

It is the ability of the shelter to create such an atmosphere that makes it so special and successful. The recognition that our guests need practical help, but also, a place to relax, feel safe where they can receive a little extra care and support seems to make all the difference.

Guest stories: Sharon

SharonSharon is 25 and has been living on her own since she moved out of her mum’s when she was 18. Sandra used to work in a butcher shop during the week, which she really enjoyed, especially being the only woman working amongst all men. She liked seeing the animals hung up (which she hopes doesn’t sound too weird!). She also used to work in a chip shop, which she enjoyed too, ‘especially on the weekend when you could see all the drunk people’. She is currently signed off for the next 6 months but she’s looking forward to being able to work again and would like to put in for her security license for security work.

 

She also is interested in tattoo art, she has 18 tattoos, and is hoping her partner will get her a tattoo starter kit. She has been with her partner for over a year, they are happily engaged and looking forward to moving in together and having children. They hope to get married in 2015. Sandra is currently working with Spires to get her own accommodation and ideally would like a one bedroom flat.

 

Sandra has been on the streets twice and says it is really, really scary, ‘you don’t want to go to sleep at all, in case you get robbed’. She likes the shelter because she feels safe and the other guests and staff are friendly, ‘there are people here to support you, almost like a family, and there is always someone there to talk. It’s important for everyone to have someone to talk to.’

 

Sometimes, she can however, find the shelter a bit too much to handle, it can be busy and noisy, but if she listens to music, she can find a bit of personal space and feels better.

Meet a volunteer: Phoebe

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Phoebe was introduced to the shelter by her dancer friend, Andrew, who also volunteers.

She has been with us for six months and is proud to newly have become a key worker and looks forward to hopefully being a useful ally to the guests. She also really enjoys working with the other volunteers, who she finds are a very special group of no-nonsense, diverse people. She is in awe of Sheila and Louis, who set up and run the shelter – and wishes that the world was full of more people who had their energy and balls. She is proud (and a bit surprised, never liking doing her own) to be a demon bed-maker, and lives in fear of being called up for cooking duty. She salutes all the chefs who each night conjure up, from what can be eclectic ingredients, a meal that is happily wolfed down by guests and volunteers together.

She feels absolutely privileged to be a part of the shelter community which does vital work and where at any one time – and often all at the same time – there can be a noisy pool game, intense philosophy class, industrial macaroni cheese production, important life-changing conversations and honky-tonk piano playing.

Bastille day street party in support of Shelter from the Storm

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Our fabulous mes aimes at the Charles Lamb pub are throwing a Bastille day street party on 13 July to support the shelter and you’re all invited!

The day will feature an amazing three-course Bastille celebratory feast for £25 per person including a Kir Royal – all profits raised will go to the shelter – as well as a petanque competition, games, live music, bunting, rosettes, bretton cider, french beers, cocktails and more. For those not joining the feast, there’ll be fresh seafood and pub food. Come on down to this fun-filled day of celebrations for an amazing cause – lock the date in your diary now and book your feast tickets tout de suite by emailing food@thecharleslambpub.com.

 

We’re also on the look out for volunteers for the day – get in touch on mail@sfts.org.uk if you can help out.

Meet a volunteer: Anthony

AnthonyAnthony doesn’t like to remember how he came to be homeless, the memories are too painful. Besides, it is all behind him now, in his past. For the last year he has been working as an administrator for a film production company, a role he got through the shelter.

Now he comes back each Monday to work as a volunteer, using his own experience to help people stuck in similar situations. “The people at the shelter taught me never to give up on myself,” he says. “It took the pressure off me, gave me the space and time to get myself together.” He says that’s a rare luxury. Most shelters in London make people move on after a fixed amount of time. “The shelter gave me the opportunity to help myself. If it wasn’t for that place, I could be dead now.”

Guest stories: Ben

Ben20130521_214415Ben can often be found entertaining the other guests with his incredible piano playing. He’s self-taught and, although he plays popular music, he’s also gifted in making up tunes which other guests sing along to – here’s an example.

He’s 21 and had been living by himself since he was 15, which is when he also started work, wanting to make it on his own. He moved over from California to work as a modelling coach but then lost his job, which led him to being on the streets for a week, an experience he describes as “tough and kind of scary”. It’s typical of him to downplay the hard times – his friendly personality has made him a popular member of the shelter.

New Horizons referred him to us about a month ago and he’s now working as a waiter at the Chelsea football club – although his dream is to become a nurse – and is hopeful that when he can afford to, he can move out and pursue this.

Meet a volunteer: Cookie

Cookie“I guess it’s the guests that make volunteering so worthwhile. I can be in bad mood after a hard day at work but as soon as I step inside the shelter, I can’t take the smile off my face.

“I did the overnights for over a year and I loved it; I wanted to become more involved in the running of the shelter so asked if I could become a key worker. I found this amazingly satisfying and I feel I’ve learned so much from the guests and the other volunteers.

“It started me thinking about a career change and I’m just about to start work with a major London charity where I’ll be working with ex offenders. Shelter from the Storm has helped me grow as a person and I can’t wait to start my new job.”