Guest stories: Kaci

KaciMusic fan Kaci has been a guest with us here at Shelter from the Storm for three months. In common with so many of our guests Kaci’s main priority is finding employment. He came to us voluntarily as he finds the atmosphere in the shelter helps to him to focus, along with giving him a sense of calm, a sense of security.

 

We’ve helped him write his CV and provided him with access to a counsellor, although, truth be told, he wishes we had more showers (we only have the two!). Kaci would like to be a police officer or, alternatively, sell gourmet street food. What’s most important to him is that he’s outside and gets to work with people in the community.

Meet some volunteers: the Savages

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Husband and wife team extraordinaire, the Savages, cook for us here at SFTS on alternate Mondays and have done for the last two years. We spoke to Sasha, as she took a breather from making dinner for forty, to tell us about her experiences volunteering at the shelter.

For her it’s the welcoming atmosphere and sense of mutual respect between volunteers and guests alike that she enjoys most. It’s also an opportunity to meet the considerable challenges of cooking for a large number of hungry guests, and spending quality time with her ‘Monday night family’ of dedicated sous-chefs. Both she, and husband Richard, are convinced that the work we do here is essential in finding opportunities for our guests and providing them with a much needed safe haven from the harsh realities of homelessness in London.

Give a caffe sospeso today

A caffè sospeso or suspended coffee is a cup of coffee paid for in advance as an anonymous 488236_445137408901302_1426433633_nact of charity. Some say the tradition is over 100 years old and began in the working-class cafés of Naples. Someone who’d had a bit of good luck would order a coffee but pay for two. Later, a poor person could ask if there was a sospeso available and would then get a coffee for free.

If you’ve ever wanted to buy a hot drink for a homeless person but worried that the money might be spent on something harmful, this is your chance.

Text CAFE13£2 to 70070

We promise that your £2, the price of a cup of coffee, will go directly to providing food and drink to London’s homeless.

In these cold hard times having a lovely cup of coffee is a small treat most of us can afford. Share that pleasure with our guests.

Guest stories: Macala

MacalaMacala’s mother has suffered from bipolar disorder all Macala’s life. Macala is 25. Although Macala’s mother took medication, this was not always adequate or effective – in the past, Macala was able to stay with relatives or friends if the relationship between mother and daughter became fraught.

Earlier this year however, Macala’s mother suffered a manic episode so severe that Macala was forced to leave her family home in Enfield. With nowhere to stay, Macala contacted Eaves and they provided her with emergency shelter in Enfield before referring her to Shelter from the Storm. Macala joined us in mid January, returning to a part of London well known to her in her childhood – her grandfather lived in Angel.

Initially she was nervous about her employment prospects but a month after settling in to the shelter she found work in West London. She enjoys her new job, and the company of her colleagues, considerably. Next week Macala will move into a room in North London. She is excited about the move and looking forward to decorating her new bedroom. Recently Macala reestablished contact with her mother and they are taking tentative steps towards rebuilding their relationship.

Meet a volunteer: Max

Max“I first got involved with Shelter from the Storm as I go travelling every summer and come back thinking I’m going to change the world but never actually get round to doing anything.  So a friend of mine Maddy suggested coming to the shelter and I loved it.

“I work Monday nights, mainly throwing biscuits at other volunteers and getting in the way, and occasionally carrying things about if Sheila shouts at me to do something.  I’ve tempered my ambitions to become head chef – turns out I’m better qualified as reserve deep fat fryer cooker and chopping stuff.  Whoever cooks it, I take the credit when it’s served. Recently I’ve started teaching English to guests as well, mainly just helping them with conversation – which more accurately means I just talk about my love life and they try to understand it.

“I enjoy it more and more each time I go – both getting to know the volunteers (it’s widely agreed by the Monday night team that the Monday night team are the best) but also the guests.  It’s opened my eyes to what homelessness actually means and changed my perceptions completely.  It’s much more complicated than you think.

“What I’d tell someone who’s interested in volunteering at the shelter? If you’re really interesting and fun come on a Monday night. If you’re weird but still want to help, then come some other time! Seriously though, I tend to think that volunteering in whatever capacity is only sustainable if you enjoy it as well as helping others – and the atmosphere in the Shelter means you do both.  I always look forward to going.”

Graham Coxon to headline our spring party

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Shelter from the Storm and Downstairs at Mother present an evening of exquisite music, featuring a 30 minute solo acoustic set from one of Britain’s best loved songwriters, Graham Coxon.
We are absolutely thrilled to have the support of musical hero and local resident Graham Coxon. Graham’s career began in the 1990s as the guitarist and co-writer in the Blur, achieving international success. Graham’s 8th solo record ‘A&E’ was released last year to widespread critical acclaim.
In support will be one of the country’s best and youngest talents, the incredible Denai Moore, and to start the party we have performances from the Cable Street open mic collective. To round us off we’ll be playing some rock and roll on the wheels of steel till they kick us out and it’s time to go home.
Not only that, we have that talented and fabulous Nail Something crew who’ll be coming down to paint the town – and your nails – red (or whatever colour or design you wish) for a small fee that will go directly to the shelter. Nail Something is a creative nail art business that draws inspiration from fashion, beauty and fine art to create amazing nail art – check out their website to find out more.
By attending this event you will not only experience incredible performances and artwork, but every penny of the ticket price – just £20 – and any money spent in the bar will go directly to the shelter To put it in perspective, every £10 provides a warm bed and food for one person for one night.
Visit our Facebook event page to say you’re attending – and invite your friends too!

Guest stories: Margaret

MagaretMargaret is 62. “But everybody tells me I look younger”, she says. She came to London 25 years ago from Poland, where she’d worked as a German translator.

She began by studying English, initially planning to return home. However, she stayed on, working in pubs and cafés, cleaning and looking after children. “I’ve always liked London”, she says: “I used to go out a lot, to plays and concerts.” But as the economic climate worsened, work dried up. She could no longer afford her room and became homeless: “I spent five weeks at Victoria coach station, sleeping sitting up”, she says, shuddering as she’s now been at SFTS for several months and cherishes having a bed: “After losing it all and being out on the street, you appreciate everything here”, she says: “The shelter is like a university of life — you have time to learn to cope and to get to know yourself better.

She hopes to find work and become independent again. “I’m still around and my brain works”, she laughs. She’d like to use her languages or work with children. Another dream is to travel to Nepal, or somewhere in South America: “I was born in the mountains, so I love climbing and trekking.

Margaret says she used to see the downside, even when good things happened. But that’s changed since arriving at the shelter. “When you’re down, you have no choice”, she says, “I’ve never been so positive in my life”.

Guest stories: Darren

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Darren spent ten years in the British Army. He was wounded while on duty in Afghanistan when an IED blew up the truck he was travelling in. Darren spent a year recovering in hospital, but has always struggled badly with post-traumatic stress disorder. After a spell living rough, he got himself together again, found a partner and took a job as cook.

 

One day he was called home from work by the police. His girlfriend had taken a heroin overdose. She had never used the drug before. She died three months later. Distraught, Darren turned to drink and drugs. He served three years in prison after an assault.

 

Thanks to support from the shelter, Darren has been clean for two months. “When I’m tempted to drink now,” he says, “I think of this place, and what I owe them, and then I count to 100.”

Meet a volunteer: Kate Riley

Kate_Riley“London is an especially awful place to feel lonely. I found Shelter from the Storm when I was looking for somewhere to volunteer in my neighborhood – somewhere to feel like part of a community.

“And while chopping vegetables and washing dishes, I got to know not only the other volunteers, but the guests as well, many of whom I recognized from around Islington and still see even after they have left the shelter.

“It’s a truly local labor of love. Shelter from the Storm runs on good, simple work: making supper, feeding people, and listening to their stories. It feels easier to say “yes” to others there; it feels easier be kind.”