Category Archives: Guest stories

Guest stories: Kaci

KaciMusic fan Kaci has been a guest with us here at Shelter from the Storm for three months. In common with so many of our guests Kaci’s main priority is finding employment. He came to us voluntarily as he finds the atmosphere in the shelter helps to him to focus, along with giving him a sense of calm, a sense of security.

 

We’ve helped him write his CV and provided him with access to a counsellor, although, truth be told, he wishes we had more showers (we only have the two!). Kaci would like to be a police officer or, alternatively, sell gourmet street food. What’s most important to him is that he’s outside and gets to work with people in the community.

Guest stories: Macala

MacalaMacala’s mother has suffered from bipolar disorder all Macala’s life. Macala is 25. Although Macala’s mother took medication, this was not always adequate or effective – in the past, Macala was able to stay with relatives or friends if the relationship between mother and daughter became fraught.

Earlier this year however, Macala’s mother suffered a manic episode so severe that Macala was forced to leave her family home in Enfield. With nowhere to stay, Macala contacted Eaves and they provided her with emergency shelter in Enfield before referring her to Shelter from the Storm. Macala joined us in mid January, returning to a part of London well known to her in her childhood – her grandfather lived in Angel.

Initially she was nervous about her employment prospects but a month after settling in to the shelter she found work in West London. She enjoys her new job, and the company of her colleagues, considerably. Next week Macala will move into a room in North London. She is excited about the move and looking forward to decorating her new bedroom. Recently Macala reestablished contact with her mother and they are taking tentative steps towards rebuilding their relationship.

Guest stories: Margaret

MagaretMargaret is 62. “But everybody tells me I look younger”, she says. She came to London 25 years ago from Poland, where she’d worked as a German translator.

She began by studying English, initially planning to return home. However, she stayed on, working in pubs and cafés, cleaning and looking after children. “I’ve always liked London”, she says: “I used to go out a lot, to plays and concerts.” But as the economic climate worsened, work dried up. She could no longer afford her room and became homeless: “I spent five weeks at Victoria coach station, sleeping sitting up”, she says, shuddering as she’s now been at SFTS for several months and cherishes having a bed: “After losing it all and being out on the street, you appreciate everything here”, she says: “The shelter is like a university of life — you have time to learn to cope and to get to know yourself better.

She hopes to find work and become independent again. “I’m still around and my brain works”, she laughs. She’d like to use her languages or work with children. Another dream is to travel to Nepal, or somewhere in South America: “I was born in the mountains, so I love climbing and trekking.

Margaret says she used to see the downside, even when good things happened. But that’s changed since arriving at the shelter. “When you’re down, you have no choice”, she says, “I’ve never been so positive in my life”.

Guest stories: Darren

Darren
Darren spent ten years in the British Army. He was wounded while on duty in Afghanistan when an IED blew up the truck he was travelling in. Darren spent a year recovering in hospital, but has always struggled badly with post-traumatic stress disorder. After a spell living rough, he got himself together again, found a partner and took a job as cook.

 

One day he was called home from work by the police. His girlfriend had taken a heroin overdose. She had never used the drug before. She died three months later. Distraught, Darren turned to drink and drugs. He served three years in prison after an assault.

 

Thanks to support from the shelter, Darren has been clean for two months. “When I’m tempted to drink now,” he says, “I think of this place, and what I owe them, and then I count to 100.”

Guest stories: John

Guest_JohnJohn’s got a wicked sense of humour which belies the difficult life he’s led that brought to our door. Originally from up north, he was working in security for G4S until they started bringing in the army to help fill their Olympic contract. He lost his job with around eight other colleagues – and then found himself on the street.
Wanting to work for a living, he took to selling the Big Issue outside Pret’s Kings Cross branch. One day, he started clearing up some mess outside the shop and the area manager called him over to say he needn’t. John said he didn’t mind and continued.
The next day, the branch manager called him in for a meeting and offered him the chance of a job through the Pret Foundation. Following his successful interview, his new employer asked whether he had a home – as he didn’t, he was referred to Shelter from the Storm. He’s now been with us for over three months and is saving up for a home of his own. While with us, he’s started writing his own story which he’s also illustrating.  He’s been entered for a writing competition and someone has approached him about publishing it. Things are looking up…

Guest stories: Angel

Angel can generally be found sitting quietly at the shelter, drawing. At 37, he’s been living in the UK for nine months – and at Shelter from the Storm, just a month. He’s Bulgarian, but moved here from Athens where he lived with his Afghani boyfriend and ran a successful hairdressing studio until the economy turned.

He loves England and moved here because he felt ostracised in his homeland because of his sexuality. While his mother understands and loves him, his family find it difficult to relate to him, still wondering why he isn’t married with children.  He claims he has nothing there and was constantly depressed: he moved to find a better life in England.

Now that he’s at the shelter, he’s continuing English lessons and has made some nice friends there.  He enjoys his new home but is hoping for his own soon. He’s just found a job as a hairdresser and when he describes it, his face lights up with such warmth. Slowly, he’s starting to rebuild his life.

Guest stories: Henry

HenryAt 67, Henry is an English citizen, a veteran of the Vietnam war, a gardener, and an avid reader, with gentle eyes and a gentler American drawl from decades spent abroad. He returned to England ten weeks ago and has been homeless ever since.

There is no anger in his voice as he tells his story, though he deserves to be angry; he blames no one, though he could. He is simply confused that after ten weeks of homelessness he is no closer to having his own bed. “I don’t want anything fancy,” he adds, “but some days you want to sleep in, don’t want to wake up so early and wander around without your own spot.” The wandering has been even harder since a bus accident that put him in hospital for a month, pinched several nerves in his back, and continues to cause him pain even as he sits quietly with his coffee.

With no access to the veteran’s benefits he receives from America, and no help with housing from the  council, Shelter from the Storm is his only home.

Guest stories: meet Kumar

Kumar*, 29, had been living at the shelter for over three months.  Before being referred to the shelter, he’d been on the streets for six months, trying to find a job.  Having worked in the hotel industry and, for a brief stint, in bingo halls, he had wanted to shift careers to one more suited to his masters degree in IT from the University of Westminster.

After two years of trying to find a suitable role, he had run out of money to pay his rent. With nowhere else to turn, he stayed on the streets using buses in central London as his main place to sleep. After a chance meeting, he found out about Shelter from the Storm and was able to stay.

He found his first IT-related role in late February and is thoroughly enjoying it.  He’s now saved up a deposit and will shortly be moving into his own accommodation.

*Not his real name

Guest stories: Anthony

Anthony, 45, was born in the UK, but left with his family for Nigeria when he was five.  He came back here when he was 18.

I came to the Shelter in September (2011).  Last May I was living in Bermondsey but couldn’t afford the rent so had to move out.  For the following five months, I was all over the place – using any savings I had to stay in hostels or anywhere.  By September I’d run out of money.  I had nowhere to go.  Without Shelter from the Storm I honestly don’t know where I’d be.  If you can’t sleep anywhere, or don’t get food, you can’t even think about getting a job and helping yourself.

The shelter gave me the chance to collect myself – I didn’t have to worry about where my next meal was coming from.  If it hadn’t been for here I could be dead, especially when you think about how cold it’s been recently.  Since coming to the shelter, I’ve managed to get a job doing administration and book keeping for a movie company. They’re going to make me permanent staff next month, which is cool.  And I’ve got a flat near Catford that I’m moving into soon as well.  I will miss the shelter, but I can’t wait to get my own room and my own space.  I would love to come back as a volunteer one day.  I want to give something back.  I might give myself a few months break though!

Guest Stories: Andrej

Andrej with his Pret colleagues

Andrej with his Pret colleagues

Andrej, a 19 year old Lithuanian man, was a guest of Shelter from the Storm between May and November 2011 before he found his own place. Here’s his story.

I moved over from Lithuania in March 2010 when I was 18 years old. I started work as a dishwasher in a number of hotels. There was a guy in one of my jobs who was bullying me and one day, we got into a fight – we both lost our jobs. After a couple of weeks, without a job, I couldn’t pay my rent and became homeless. I would sleep in buses and on trains – I made a map of places where I could get into them where there were no barriers. For food, I’d collect the competition stamps from Macdonalds – the ones where if you had enough, you could get free food.

I was still looking for jobs and going for job interviews at the time but I couldn’t shower and I don’t think I gave the best impression.

I was then put in touch with Alone in London – they gave me some money for food and referred me to Shelter from the Storm. A few days later, I was living there. Shelter from the Storm helped me – the other guests and the volunteers are nice. I really enjoyed it there.

I was still looking for a job and Louie put in me touch with Pret*. I got a job there in July and they’ve really looked after me. I did a three-month paid apprenticeship and during that time, they gave me free travel allowance and vouchers for clothes. When I finished the apprenticeship, they helped me to buy a laptop.

At Pret, I’m a member of team and I do everything from organizing the float, to serving people, cooking hot food and even being a barista. It’s a good job – they’ve given me some great training. I’m now training to become a shift leader with lots of responsibility.

I still come back to Shelter from the Storm for dinner. Thanks to Louie and Sheila for taking me in and helping me get the job.

* Pret partners with Shelter from the Storm to help some of the young guests obtain training and work experience at their stores.